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DIVINE HEALING

E-Book: Help! I love an avoider

E-Book: Help! I love an avoider

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You love. But you feel alone. You give it your all, want to understand, want to reach him, but the closer you get, the further he withdraws. You wait for messages, look for signs, try to read between the lines. You wonder if you're too much. Or not enough.

If you recognize yourself here, then this book is written for you. Not to tell you that you have to let go. But to show you how to hold on to yourself, whether you stay or go.

This e-book takes you on a journey that goes deep beneath the surface:

Emotionally honest, clear, and guided by a deep understanding of psychological dynamics, without preaching to you, but rather guiding you mindfully. You'll understand how an avoidant person truly feels. What triggers their overwhelm. Why you suddenly cling even though you don't want to. And why you keep losing each other, even though there's actually love there.

You will learn:

• Why your triggers are not a weakness but a gateway to healing.

• How emotional dependency arises and how you can free yourself from it.

• What you really need, beyond the other person’s reaction.

• What healthy, safe closeness can look like, even with an avoidant partner.

• And how to become whole again, without hardening yourself, without drama.

This book meets you exactly where you are right now: in the confusion, in the pain, in the waiting. But it doesn't leave you there.

It gives you language for what you feel. Understanding for what you can't grasp. And hope for what is possible. Whether you walk this path with him or without him, you won't walk it against yourself afterward.

🖋 101 pages full of depth, insight and closeness to real life.

📩 Important: Shipping is usually done immediately via email after payment. You do NOT need a Kindle or e-book reader; you'll receive the e-book as a PDF and can easily read it directly on your phone, tablet, or laptop. You don't need to install anything or anything like that.

I wish you much insight and healing while reading.

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Hi, I’m Sara, though many people know me online as Divine Healing.

I know the pain of loving someone avoidant, because I’ve lived it with every cell of my body. I’ve been on both sides of it – carrying my own avoidant patterns and, at the same time, loving a partner who would pull away just when I needed him most.

There were moments when the distance between us felt unbearable. We even broke apart, caught in the same cycle so many women find themselves trapped in. And yet, that heartbreak became my turning point. It forced me to look deeper, into him, into myself, and into the wounds that were really driving our love story.

This book was born out of that journey. It isn’t theory. It isn’t something I studied in books. It’s the lived truth that broke me open, changed me, and brought me back into a healthy, loving relationship.

And that’s why women all over tell me they finally feel seen when they read my words. Because I don’t just describe what’s happening, I feel it with them. And that’s what makes it a mirror, a spark, sometimes even the motor for the deepest changes.

Every page of this book carries the insights that changed my life. It’s my heart poured into words, and my hope is that it becomes a lifeline for you, too.