Hi, I’m Sara, though many people know me online as Divine Healing.
I know the pain of loving someone avoidant, because I’ve lived it with every cell of my body. I’ve been on both sides of it – carrying my own avoidant patterns and, at the same time, loving a partner who would pull away just when I needed him most.
There were moments when the distance between us felt unbearable. We even broke apart, caught in the same cycle so many women find themselves trapped in. And yet, that heartbreak became my turning point. It forced me to look deeper, into him, into myself, and into the wounds that were really driving our love story.
This book was born out of that journey. It isn’t theory. It isn’t something I studied in books. It’s the lived truth that broke me open, changed me, and brought me back into a healthy, loving relationship.
And that’s why women all over tell me they finally feel seen when they read my words. Because I don’t just describe what’s happening, I feel it with them. And that’s what makes it a mirror, a spark, sometimes even the motor for the deepest changes.
Every page of this book carries the insights that changed my life. It’s my heart poured into words, and my hope is that it becomes a lifeline for you, too.